Yes, Mothers Rape Their Children

Notice: This blog is a healing blog by a survivor of child sexual abuse. This blog does not include specific details or depictions about child sexual abuse, fiction or non-fiction, nor do I post any links here that do so.

My Resource Links Pages:

Mother Daughter Sexual Abuse

Female Sexual Offenders

Male Survivor Links

Healing from Child Sexual Abuse

Resources for Survivors

May be upsetting or triggering, mentions sexual offenders and their online activities.

There is an older post, with the same title as this one, one that still gets a lot of hits, because it is on the topic of mother daughter sexual abuse and I use the word rape. Apparently that is a word that sexual offenders online use a lot when trying to find sexual offenses against children online. Yesterday I got a particularly upsetting word search and this is the post they went to. I wanted to keep that blog post, and indeed had decided to keep it up each time this comes up, but now instead I made it password protected and instead posted the portion with the links on this topic from my resource pages to this new post.

Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse Resources

Notice: This blog is a healing blog by a survivor of child sexual abuse. This blog does not include specific details about child sexual abuse, fiction or non-fiction, nor do I post any links on my resource pages that do. Attempting to find them on my blog or on any of my survivor resource pages is an exercise in futility.

Survivor Resource Pages (Forty pages of resources, non-profit organizations, articles, and healing support for survivors of child sexual abuse, rape, sexual assault, domestic violence, and dealing with the aftermath of child sexual abuse.)

(Please note, I highly recommend that survivors do not join or participate in fee based online message board groups that are owned and run by therapists. The therapist charges a monthly fee. I have experiences and known others who have had experiences that were negative, painful, abusive and very unhealing. However the survivors I knew at those message boards were wonderful.

I would advise anyone to avoid fee based therapist owned message boards like the plague and to not pay for any message board interactions for memberships there. I realize that everyone must make their own choices, but have come to believe that I should make a statement of my beliefs on my blog.)

Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse: A Painful Topic

Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse

Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse 2

Long-term Effects of Sexual Abuse by a Female

Examining Mother Daughter Sexual Abuse

What is Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse?

Healing Challenges Specific to Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse

Child Abuse By Mother: “She Did the Best She Could”

Can the Gaping Hole from Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse be Healed?

Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse Issues in Adulthood

Yearning for a Mother After Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse

Grieving Losses after Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse

Mother Daughter Sexual Abuse Dynamics Book List

MDSA Novels and Autobiography Book List

Blogs that cover the topic of Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse:

My Blog: Kate Is Rising

Rose Roars

Shapeshifters

Butterfly Closures

Saving Olivia

Discovering Serenity

Reflections on Life Thus Far

Finding Health After Illness

Innocence Stolen

Seething Consequences

Blueorchid8

Female Sexual Offenders- Survivors Safehouse

The People Behind My Eyes

MDSA Resources:

The Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers

An Unthinkable Topic- The Mother Daughter Sexual Child Abuse Scenario

Mother Love/Female Abusers Part 2

Mother Love Part II– The Psychological Impact on Daughters Who Have Been Sexually Abused by Their Mothers

General Healing Resources:

Comprehensive Healing Page

Healing from Child Sexual Abuse

Grounding/Coping Skills

Self-Soothe/Comfort Skills

Emotions and Self-Esteem

Boundaries Skills

Body Image

Self-Injury/Self-Harm

Eating Disorders

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

Narcissistic Mother Resources:

Characteristics of Narcissistic Mothers

How to Recognize a Narcissist

Narcissistic Traits

Forms of Abuse

Negative Self-Talk

Engulfing Mother

Infantilisation

Parentification

Ignoring Mother

Invalidating

Strings Attached

Gaslighting

Narcissistic Rage

Golden Child/Scapegoat

Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Dealing with a Narcissist

Narcissistic Mother-English Dictionary

Does Someone You Love Have NPD or BPD?

Borderline Personality Disorder Mother Resources:

What is Borderline Personality Disorder?

Hallmarks of BPD

Enmeshment: 1+1=1

Are You an Emotional Caretaker?

How a Mother with BPD Affects Her Children

Overcoming Childhood Emotional Neglect

Mothering Ourselves

Create Yourself a New Mom

Portable Comfort: How to Take Comfort With You

Mothering Ourselves– Nurturing Yourself, Your Dreams, & the World

More MDSA Resources:

Amy Fix: Musician, Songwriter, Singer, MDSA Survivor

Christine Sandor’s Website, author of  Warming the Stone Children, MDSA Survivor

Precious Swan (Compare and contrast article on Precious and Black Swan)

[Mother Daughter] Sexual Abuse in Black Swan

Black Swan: Movie About Mother-Daughter Sexual Abuse

Female Child Sexual Abusers: A Critical Review of the Literature

Female Sexual Abuse of Children: The Ultimate Taboo

Female Sexual Abusers Not as Rare as Widely Believe

Female Perpetration of Child Sexual Abuse: An Overview of the Problem

Female Sexual Offenders and Their Victims: Reference Materials and Scholarly Papers

Oprah Episode: Women Who Molest

Female Sexual Abusers- Who Are They?

It’s Not Just Men Who Abuse

Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers

Females and Sexual Abuse: The Ultimate Taboo

Mum was a Paedophile