Female Parent’s Birth Date Saturday

I’ve been more dissociated lately about the month and the date this past week. Then it dawned on me, yeah no ritual abuse trigger dates coming up, but it is my female parent’s date of birth on Saturday. And that has been a bad yearly date for several years.

When your mother is your sexual offender, mother-daughter sexual abuse, it pretty much makes every day a trigger day when it comes to mother stuff. In addition, some days are much worse than others, like Mother’s Day and her birth date.

I had started looking for a place to move to, but my anxiety and fears had gotten ratcheted up really bad this week. Then I remembered the upcoming date and decided to take a couple of days off to try to cope. Even though the day is still coming up, I felt better right away.

Today I will go for a long bike ride and go to the local buffet restaurant and have a good time, read a book, and sit and have some favorite foods. I have a coupon! Friday I am thinking about going to the movie theater to see something that just came out. I don’t have plans for Saturday, but I will be working on some ideas until then.

Even if my plans are to do nothing, to expect nothing from myself, to comfort myself, to sleep as much as I want, and to be gentle and loving and kind to myself, that is good enough. And it shows how far I have come and how much we have healed.

Resources: Female Sexual Offenders

Survivor Resource Pages (Forty pages of resources, non-profit organizations, articles, and healing support for survivors of child sexual abuse, rape, sexual assault, domestic violence, and dealing with the aftermath of child sexual abuse.)

Female Sexual Abusers- Who Are They?

Recognizing Female Abusers

Female Sex Offenders

Female Sex Offenders

On Topic of Female Sexual Offenders (Canadian Children’s Rights Council)

Landmark Sex Exp[oitation Study Finds Surprsing Number of Female Abusers

Female Sexual Abusers: Facts and Fiction

Long Term Effects of  Sexual Abuse by a Female

Female Sexual Offenders- Survivors Safehouse

Healing from Child Sexual Abuse

Mother Daughter Sexual Abuse

Male Survivors

Oprah Episode: Women Who Molest

Female Abusers Hide Behind Veil of Motherly Stereotypes

It’s Not Just Men Who Abuse

Are There Women Paedophiles?

Women as Sexual Abusers

Female Sexual Abuse: The Untold Story of Society’s Last Taboo

Female Sexual Abuse of Children:  ‘The Ultimate Taboo

The Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers

The Final Taboo: Female Sex Offenders

More Females in Authority Emerging as Child Predators

The Hidden Truth

Up to 64,000 Women  in U.K. Are ‘Child Sexual Offenders’

Female Sexual Abusers Not as Rare as Widely Believed

Sexual Abuse by Women: The Crime No One Wants to Investitgate

Bibliography on Female Sexual Offenders

Male Sexual Abuse Victims of Female Perpetrators: Society’s Betrayal of Boys

Women on the Prowl: Grown Women Sexually Abusing Teenage Boys Much More Frequently Than Reported

Bibliography on Female Offenders

Female Sex Offenders

What About When Mom is the Abuser?