Success in Coloring

I am very happy to report that I have accomplished my goal of coloring in a coloring book before the end of the Twelve Days of Christmas.We colored in some Christmas coloring books.

I am working on making up some goals for this year and coloring is one of them. I think it is realistic to do a goal of once a month, based on how hard this is for me and how much of my life is still up in the air, how small of a space I have in my bedroom, and how little room I have for activities of any kind and what with living in someone else’s house who is planning on trying to sell it and having to find another place to move in the spring. But I am going to try to color in the coloring books at least once a week. If I can’t I will try to be happy with the plan b goal of once a month.

Ever since I was very small my sister always tried to take everything away from me. She used to buy me or convince my mother to buy me ugly things for Christmas. She was great at robbing all the joy from me. A perfect example of this would be what she always did to me around coloring.

On my first day of kindergarten my sister went to class with me. I know that I was so scared and this is something that she had agreed to do with all of her younger siblings. I was grateful to her. The reason that I was so scared out of my mind was because my own mother was a monster, a child beater, and a sexual offender. Since my own mother was a monster, someone who was supposed to feed and clothe, love and protect me, and she didn’t I had no expectation of safety anywhere in my life.

I was scared of everything. I was scared of teachers, the school building, the other students.  My teenage sister sat in a little tiny chair next to me sitting in my chair, in front of my desk. When it came time to color, the teacher handed out a sheet of paper with a drawing of little red riding hood. I was so scared I couldn’t. I had been taught that I was completely incompetent, at everything, by my mother. I’m pretty sure now that my sister really enjoyed that, took part in it from the time I was very tiny, and liked the idea of me thinking that I was worthless.

I told her I couldn’t and that she could. She did. It was beautiful. I still remember the dark red cape and how striking that looked. I could never color that well. I took that paper home and kept it for a long time. As a child she loved to reinforce how much better she was at coloring. Yes, well I was a child and she was a teenager and then an adult.

As an adult I’ve still tried to color. My sister loved to color with me, always making sure to point out how good her coloring was. Even when she knew that I was multiple and that it was The Littles who wanted to color, she would still go out of her way to make me feel bad about myself, because my coloring just didn’t measure up.

I have never gotten good at coloring. But over the years I have continued to try, because The Littles have continued to ask to color. I’ve bought lots and lots of coloring books over the years. I currently have about 50 coloring books and 3 new sets of 96 crayon boxes.

Well actually only 2 new sets of large boxes and one box that is slightly used, after yesterday. I still judge my coloring so harshly, even while I’m aware that it is little kids doing the coloring. I would never do that to real kids. Even if they don’t have kid bodies, they are real kids and I am going to try to keep reminding myself of that. This is for them.

Usually the ugly hateful voice in my head are direct quotes from my mother abuser, but in this case I think that they are fueled and sustained by my sister and her hateful voice. Seriously, what kind of person makes a child feel bad about coloring?

I am going to try to include coloring in our creative activities and think that might help me to do it more often. I’ll post more this month about my goal setting and through the months on how that process is going.

Littles Bliss List 5

Being Read To. We love that, so much.

We love to go to the library and get books on cd. We haven’t found a lot of great ones, but we did find two great cd sets. That makes us think that there might be some other great littles books to listen to.

This is our favorites from them:

Green Eggs and Ham and other servings of Dr. Seuss

These are our favorite readings from this two cd set:

Green Eggs and Ham, read by Jason Alexander.

I’m Not Going to Get up Today, read by Jason Alexander.

Fox in Socks, read by David Hyde Pierce.

The Cat in the Hat and other Dr. Seuss Favorites:

These are our favorite readings from this two cd set:

Cat in the Hat, read by Kelsey Grammer.

Did I ever tell you how lucky you are?, read by John Cleese.

Horton Hatches an Egg, read by Billy Crystal.

Littles Bliss List #4


One of my all time favorites, since I was very young, has been triceratops. I remember when I first studied about dinosaurs in elementary school, loved it, loved them, still love them.

Littles Bliss List #3


I love puzzles. We buy the 100 piece children puzzles at used stores for less than fifty cents each. They are lots of fun to put together. I usually look for Disney puzzles. The animal puzzles seem to be much harder to figure out, leading to a lot of frustration, and so I don’t usually buy those. The action hero ones tend to be very violent and sometimes scary looking, but I am slowly giving in to what others are wanting and buying those recently as well.

Littles Bliss List #1

Children’s illustrated books

We love children’s illustrated books. We always have. We probably always will. Here is the Littles’ list of our favorite Christmas books for Littles. It might be too late to read any of these, for this year, but we put up a list at for anyone to check out, of our current favorites.

Christmas Books for Littles