I was taking out my recycles a few hours ago. I was resting on the steps. I try to always be polite to everyone in the building and had never been hit on in the building and have always been treated well by guys inside the building.
Guy: You live here?
Me: Yes on this floor.
In this building?
Yes. (I guess he is unsure what I had just said. My body language is saying go away, I am not interested in you.)
He indicated he lives down the hall.
He: Are you married?
No. And never will be. (To dissaude him.)
He: Do you have a boyfriend?
No. And never will be. (To dissaude him from hitting on me. Why I still do this I cannot say. I should just tell them I’m not interested in them when they start to “chat me up.”.)
He: Do you want to get to know one another?
Me: No. No I don’t.
And I walked away from him.
I’m not interested in guys I’m not interested in and I hate being hit on by someone I don’t like or don’t trust or am not attracted to in one way or another. It’s not looks it is about their soul, their energy, their being and I know right away.