About

Hi, I’m Kate. Welcome to my blog.

I am a survivor of abuse. If you read my blog, in time, I will probably cover all the different kinds that I have experienced in-depth. I have been working on healing for over twenty years.

I was abused by my mother, in every way, mentally, emotionally, verbally, spiritually, physically and sexually. She was the first abuser. She made possible everything else that happened in my life that was abuse.

I am multiple. I have been diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder. I am proud that I survived.

Please know that if you are a survivor of child sexual abuse that you are not alone. There is someone out there who can relate and knows what you are going through. Healing happens alone, but quicker and more profoundly in combination with others.

Please know that in your darkest days and darkest moments there are a whole group of people who can relate, who like you have dealt with what you are dealing with, and who can understand and care about you. You might not know these people yet, these other survivors, but they are there and I know and believe they will come into your life as you heal. Reach out for them. You are not alone.

Please be aware that this blog is potentially triggering. I do not use trigger warnings on any of my posts. If I do post about an abuse memory I will note that at the top of the post. Take steps to read when you are feeling safe.

If triggered please take care of yourself first, you are the most important person in your life and deserve all the love and care and more that you give to others.

Good and healing thoughts to you.